5 tips for making friends in college

By Alex Burke

October 2, 2024

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Making the transition from high school to college can be both an exciting and daunting experience. Students’ social circle can make or break their college experience, so here are some tips on making friends in a new environment.

1. Get involved on campus
   

Student clubs and organizations are one of the best ways to meet like-minded people. University of Maryland offers so many clubs, many of which focus on niche and unique interests, such as the Tea Club, Crocheting for a Cause, and Guitar Players United. Joining clubs can provide an easy and fun way to pursue new hobbies while getting to know other students who share the same passions.

If you’re unsure about what clubs and organizations are offered here at UMD, use TerpLink to explore and learn more about how you can get involved.

UMD also offers a wide variety of club sports teams. If you enjoy being active or played a sport in high school, club athletics are also a great way to connect with new people. Club sports offer a welcoming environment for students of any skill level, making it easy to jump in and meet new people.

1. Attend social events
   

UMD offers many opportunities for students to socialize outside of the classroom. The Student Entertainment Events (SEE) hosts events throughout the year that allow students to meet new people in fun and engaging environments. From movie nights, to comedy shows, to concerts, there are always things going on that allow students to make new friends. This October, for instance, SEE will feature a magic show, a homecoming comedy show, a carnival and a Halloween haunted house.

1. Utilize your dorm situation
   

If you’re living in a dorm, take advantage of your space by studying in communal spaces, attending any floor events or simply having conversations and interactions with the people around you. Being open to talking to people on your floor or in your building can lead to unexpected connections. 

Setting up a group chat with people on your floor can also be a useful way of getting to know people. This can allow students to plan study sessions, make social plans or casually chat over text.

“I think it’s great to make friends with the people in your building and on your floor,” said freshman public health major Emily McEntire. “They’re the first friends you make in college and provide you with a community to lean on.”

1. Talk to people in class
   

Although it can be nerve wracking, making friends in classes is definitely worth it. Reaching out to someone in class to form a study group or grab a cup of coffee can make all the difference.

“I sit next to people who I have similar outfit style; it’s a good conversation starter,” said sophomore criminology and criminal justice major Hayley Sims.

“I try to make friends in my classes so that we can form study groups and share notes,” Simms said. “Classes with friends motivates me to go to classes and usually have better grades.”

1. Be confident in yourself
   

Having a friendly demeanor can go a long way. Smiling, maintaining eye contact and being open to conversations can all make a good impression – many other students are also eager to make friends.

Taking initiative to talk to students can also lead to new friendships. Striking up a conversation with someone sitting alone in the dining hall or a group in the library can seem intimidating, but it never hurts to put yourself out there.

Finally, be willing to explore things on your own. As scary as it might sound, attending campus events, studying or walking around campus by yourself can lead to countless new experiences and encounters with other students.

Remember, forming friendships takes time and patience. It may not happen overnight, so give it time. College is a great place to find your people and hopefully following these tips will bring more students together.​